When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the control of righteousness.
Romans 6:20
In my years of working as a counselor, I have been struck by the number of Christian women who are disconnected from relationships in their local church. Many of these women have spent the bulk of their lives raising children and working a job. And by the time you add maintaining a husband and home, they simply have not had the time or energy to invest in meaningful relationships outside their family. If they have “friends”, they are often built on convenience and lack substance beyond an acquaintanceship. Unfortunately, when “the day of evil” comes they struggle to find the people resources needed to help them through their trial. They are in need of wisdom, encouragement, and accountability, but they don’t have anyone who knows them intimately.
So what does real repentance look like? A good picture can be seen in Jacob’s repentance to his twin brother Esau. Remember that these twins did not have the best of relationships. Esau was rash and irresponsible. Jacob was conniving and manipulative. In fact it is fair to say that Jacob had a made a career out of tricking and taking advantage of his older twin’s weaknesses. Theirs was not a relationship of brotherly love.
Paul and Carol Sanford are an Air Force couple living in Montgomery while Paul attends Air University. They’ve been married 20 years, or as they point out, 245 months. Since they were married on the 3rd of the month, the Sanford’s are in the habit of celebrating their anniversary on the 3rd day of each month—with a date! Paul and Carol plan to further fortify their marriage by attending the “Weekend to Remember” marriage conference at Embassy Suites, February 10-12. They recently shared with Bob Crittenden of Faith Radio, “We know that our marriage is strengthened because the Lord is the center of our relationship. The (marriage) conference will allow us to grow together in our faith and dedication to the Lord and each other. Plus, it’s fun to have a weekend away!”